How to Buy a Headstone?

January 17, 2025

Purchasing a tombstone is an important decision that requires careful thought. Whether you are planning ahead or making arrangements for a loved one, understanding the process can help you make the right choice. Gaulden Monuments has showrooms in Charlotte, Rock Hill, Gastonia, Monroe, Salisbury, Marion, Winnsboro and Florence, and we deliver free to any cemetery in the 48 contiguous states. Our goal is to help families honor their loved ones with dignity and elegance.

1. Understand the types of memorials

Choosing the right type of memorial is the first step. Memorials come in various styles to fit personal preferences, cemetery regulations and budgets. Here are the common types:

Grass level memorials

Grass level memorials lie flat on the ground, providing a clean and understated look. These are ideal for families who prefer a subtle tribute that blends naturally with the surrounding landscape.

In our store from $725. Browse flat grave markers.

Grass level memorial

Bronze memorials

Bronze memorials are a timeless choice, combining durability with elegance. Often mounted on granite bases, they are designed to withstand the elements while retaining their beauty.

In our store from $2,199. Browse bronze grave markers.

Bronze memorial

Infant memorials

Infant memorials are crafted with care and tenderness to honor the memory of the youngest loved ones. These smaller, delicate designs convey love and remembrance.

In our store from $1,218. Browse infant memorials.

Infant memorial

Columbariums

A columbarium provides a respectful and organized resting place for cremated remains. These structures are often made of granite or marble and offer a lasting tribute.

In our store from $4,199. Browse columbariums.

Columbarium

Pet memorials

Pets hold a special place in our hearts, and pet memorials allow families to celebrate their furry companions with personalized designs.

In our store from $145. Browse pet memorials.

Pet memorial

Heart monuments

Heart-shaped monuments symbolize eternal love and devotion. These designs are especially popular for couples or to signify deep affection.

In our store from $1,399. Browse heart monuments.

Heart monument

Upright monuments

Upright monuments are the most traditional type of gravestone. Standing tall, they offer ample space for custom inscriptions and designs to commemorate a loved one.

In our store from $1,625. Browse upright headstones.

Upright monument

Custom memorials

For a truly unique tribute, custom designs like a watermelon-shaped headstone can reflect the personality and passions of your loved one. Contact us to talk through a custom design.

Custom watermelon headstone

2. Set a budget

Understanding your budget will help narrow down your options. Tombstone prices vary widely based on materials, size and customization. In our online store, a flat grass-level marker starts at $725 and an upright headstone at $1,625, and our budget monuments under $1,500 are gathered in one place. For a full breakdown, see what a headstone costs. Our team is happy to work with you to find the right balance between cost and quality.

3. Use our online headstone designer

To simplify the process, we offer an online headstone designer. It lets you choose from different headstone types, customize text and see your design before placing an order. It is perfect for those who want a hands-on approach to creating a meaningful memorial.

4. Check cemetery regulations

Each cemetery has specific regulations regarding the size, material and style of tombstones. It is essential to confirm these rules before finalizing your purchase. Our team can help you understand these requirements so your memorial meets all guidelines. For permits and approvals, see do you need permission to put a headstone on a grave.

5. Contact Gaulden Monuments for support

At Gaulden Monuments, we pride ourselves on providing exceptional service. Whether you have questions or need help designing the perfect memorial, our team is here to assist. Visit our FAQs page for quick answers, contact us or call (803) 327-2760 to speak with a specialist.

6. Plan ahead for peace of mind

Pre-planning your own memorial or a loved one’s can relieve stress and make sure every detail matches your wishes. By taking the time to plan, you can focus on celebrating the life and legacy of your loved one without last-minute decisions.

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